One of the biggest hinderances to erotic pleasure is the expectation of the mind. We tend to have an idea of what we believe good sex should feel like. This might come from past experiences or things we’ve learned. But if our experiences don’t live up to these expectations or overtime our bodies respond differently, […]
The art and practice of self pleasure is something I recommend for everyone. I recently spoke at the wonderful Sex Lectures in Manchester about the how and why of self pleasure.