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Women

In the last few generations women’s expectations have evolved tremendously and there’s much to celebrate. Female sexuality is considered important, our orgasms matter, sex toys are made specifically for us…

And yet… along with this shift has come pressure: to be an incredible multi-orgasmic sexual goddess, who can enjoy and perform the many sexual acts seen in pornography, who always feels sexy and confident…

For many women this is not the reality.

Instead, women struggle with balancing time for eroticism with their careers, families and the pressures of modern life…..

Their partners may want more sex and and they find themselves repeatedly saying no …or saying yes, but only because they don’t want to disappoint.

Conversely, they may want more sex, or longer sex, than their partner, and feel frustrated as a result.

Or perhaps the idea of being this evolved sexual goddess just feels out of reach, and maybe even starting a relationship feels too much.

Many women enjoy receiving the attention but could take or leave the actual sex, so focus on their partners pleasure.
Many women find themselves in a struggle to ‘achieve orgasm’.
Many women find they feel numb during sex.
Many women find sex to be painful.
Many women don’t know how to tell their partners what they want, sometimes because they don’t themselves know.
Many women simply can’t find their libido.
Many women feel their desires are inappropriate and their fantasies are shameful.
Many women feel so uncomfortable in their bodies, finding pleasure there feels a long way off.
Many women worry that their genitals are the wrong shape or size and feel the only way is to spend thousands on Labiaplasty.
Many women hold an idea or dream of what wonderful sex would be like, but the reality is far from that. They don’t know whether there is something wrong with them or their partners.
Many women find that their bodies and their pleasure have changed after childbirth, breastfeeding, menopause, hysterectomy, grief, illnesses and a multitude of other life-altering events.

If any of these sound like you, know you are not alone, and lots can be done to change your situation.

Book a no obligation free 15min phone consultation with me.

At the very least I am likely to be able to recommend some good literature or point you in the direction of someone that could help.

Over the last 15 years of self discovery, learning, running workshops and seeing 1-1 clients, I have absorbed and refined so many wonderful practices and approaches that can be tailored to meet your specific needs.

We would typically begin with a 1-1 talking session for 1.5hrs. During this time we explore your specific needs. I will also offer you some practices and, where appropriate, we create and agree a series of sessions to support you to make changes towards a more fulfilling erotic life.

Later our sessions may include massage and bodywork to release tension that is unconsciously held in the body; allowing more energy for your life and pleasure. Bodywork can also remediate pain and numbness caused by childbirth, medical intervention or traumatic experiences.

By working with me you can learn:

to enjoy and love your own body.
to listen to your body’s likes and dislikes more acutely than ever before.
to understand your own arousal patterns – so you never feel rushed into sex, or left hanging and frustrated.
about ways of communicating that bring enlightenment to your relationship with your partner – so neither of you is “putting up with” anything ever again.
about your innate feminine and erotic power with practices that can cultivate your creative fire to enrich every aspect of your life.
to feel more pleasure and how to build this pleasure, following your body’s own natural rhythm; thus opening the doors to exploring orgasmic bliss.

to understand the beliefs that hold you back.
about wholly different approaches to sexuality based on pleasure and nurture.
to understand your fantasies, and how they can help you to understand yourself.
how bodywork can help you regain a positive and wholesome relationship with your body.
about practices that allow you to feel much, much, much more pleasure.